Toddler Won't Eat Meat? Read This for Easy Tips to Help (2024)

Having a child refuse to eat a whole category of food can be such a challenge, so today I’m going to share what to do when a toddler won’t eat meat—including easy steps you can take to help improve the situation and how to worry a little less.

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When a Toddler Won’t Eat Meat

This is a common question that I hear regularly from parents trying to broaden their toddler’s eating habits, so I thought that I’d take the question to one of my favorite food experts. Maryann Jacobsen, MS, RD, is behind Raise Healthy Eaters and is the co-author of Fearless Feeding, which ranks up there as one of my favorite feeding books.

I asked Maryann for her thoughts on why and what you can do when a toddler won’t eat meat. Here’s her take:

There are a variety of reasons that toddlers shy away from meat. First, it can be too hard to chew—softer and cut up meat works better. Second, the texture can bother children, especially when it’s a new meat. To remedy this, parents can encourage toddlers to touch and guess how the food will feel in their mouths.

But growth and development contribute to. Growth slows around two and appetites decrease. Toddlers and preschoolers tend to favor more starchy, carbohydrate heavy foods. For example, if parents serve pasta with a side of meat and veggies, the toddler often goes straight for the pasta. A recent study in Proceedings of National Academy of Sciences shows that growth slows so energy can be diverted to the developing brain. And a key source of energy for the brain is glucose. To give you an idea, a 5 year old’s brain uses two times the glucose an adult brain does. This peak of glucose utilization for the brain is age 4.

This doesn’t mean toddlers and preschoolers should only be fed carbs, but it can help parents understand why kids prefer the foods they do. Mixing protein and carbs can help like in meatballs or pulled pork sandwiches.

Keep offering foods without pressure or forcing, or kids could develop food aversions. At around age 6, my daughter started eating more protein foods like fish, meat and chicken. My son is slowly getting there too. Patience and exposure are key.

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Best Meats for Kids

If you’re looking for some softer meats to try, think ground beef, ground chicken, crumbled sausage, and shredded chicken thighs, which are often much moister than breast meat and easier to chew. Save the steak for later, or give them a large piece that they can chew on to enjoy the flavor without having to worry too much about actual chewing. Here are some recipes to try that work for both babies and toddlers:

TIP: Keep in mind that all kids have unique flavor and texture preferences and some may simply just not like meat that much.

Is my toddler getting enough protein?

If you have any concerns about protein for kids, that linked post will help. They don’t necessarily even need to be eating meat regularly to hit their protein needs, which may be a lot lower than you realize. Most kids get enough protein without us even needing to worry about it at all, so you can likely relax if that’s your main concern.

For more tips on introducing new foods to your toddlers, check out my Resource Library for a free download with tips.

This post was first published January 2019.

Toddler Won't Eat Meat? Read This for Easy Tips to Help (2024)

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Toddler Won't Eat Meat? Read This for Easy Tips to Help? ›

There are a variety of reasons that toddlers shy away from meat. First, it can be too hard to chew—softer and cut up meat works better. Second, the texture can bother children, especially when it's a new meat. To remedy this, parents can encourage toddlers to touch and guess how the food will feel in their mouths.

What to do when a toddler won't eat meat? ›

If your child is vegetarian or does not like to eat meat (e.g., beef, pork, goat), chicken, turkey or fish, offer alternatives such as eggs, peanut butter, tofu, beans, lentils, nuts, seeds and soy-based meat substitutes. These foods have similar nutrients and will help your child meet their nutritional needs.

What if my toddler is not eating enough meat? ›

Foods such as milk, yogurt, cheese, eggs, nut and seed butters, beans, legumes, and whole grains all contain protein. Because serving sizes for toddlers are small, you may find your child is eating adequate amounts of foods to meet their protein needs.

What can I give my toddler instead of meat? ›

If your child doesn't eat meat or fish, they'll get enough iron if you give them plenty of other iron-rich foods, such as fortified breakfast cereals, green leafy vegetables, beans and lentils. Children who don't eat meat or fish are more likely to lack iron, which can lead to iron-deficiency anaemia.

What is the best protein for toddlers who won't eat meat? ›

Legumes – Peas, beans of all varieties, lentils and chickpeas are excellent sources of iron as well as protein. Try adding to their favourite pasta sauces, soups, homemade baked beans, mashed or even using in dips like hummus. The choices are endless. And most importantly, your toddlers are bound to enjoy them!

How do you trick a child into eating meat? ›

Try offering your child soft, tender cuts such as pork tender loin. Cooking meat slowly in casseroles and stews keeps meat softer too. Using minced meat, sausages, meatballs and burgers is also a popular way to offer softer meat.

Do toddlers need meat everyday? ›

Meat, poultry, fish, eggs, beans and nuts

These foods provide protein and iron for growth and development. Red meat such as beef, lamb and pork contain iron, offer them 3 times a week. Give meat, poultry, fish, eggs, beans or nuts to your child at each of their 2 main meals every day.

How can I get my toddler to eat protein without meat? ›

Beans, peas, nuts, seeds, and soy products are especially high in protein, but it's also found in dairy products, vegetables, breads, and grains.

What are the symptoms of lack of meat? ›

  • Edema (Swelling) One of the main signs of kwashiorkor is swelling on both sides of the body. ...
  • Skin and Hair Changes. ...
  • Getting Sick More Often. ...
  • Muscle Loss and Weakness. ...
  • Decreased Bone Development and Density. ...
  • Stunted Growth. ...
  • Weight Loss or Gain. ...
  • Anemia.
Sep 5, 2023

How do I get my toddler to eat meat and vegetables? ›

Set a good example. Have family meals together and let your child see you eating a variety of nutritious foods yourself. Also, toddlers are more likely to eat what their peers eat, so look for opportunities where she can eat healthfully with friends. Involve her in choosing the vegetables you serve.

What foods can replace meat? ›

How to get protein without the meat
  • Pulses. Pulses are an inexpensive protein choice, are high in fibre and a source of iron. ...
  • Soya beans. ...
  • Quinoa. ...
  • Nuts. ...
  • Seeds. ...
  • Cereals and grains. ...
  • Quorn™ ...
  • Dairy.

What happens if a child doesn't eat enough protein? ›

Williams added that children who don't get enough protein may experience health issues, including fatigue, poor concentration, slowed growth, bone and joint pain, delayed wound healing and decreased immune response. But with small changes you can protect against protein deficiency.

What to do if a toddler won't eat meat? ›

Use a pressure cooker or slow cooker to make the meat soft and easier to eat. Marinating can also make meat more tender and easier to chew. Or if you're serving a more difficult-to-chew piece of meat like a steak, pork chop or chicken breast, try cutting it into tiny bites.

What are 2 foods that are protein but not meat? ›

Whole soy foods, such as edamame, tofu, tempeh, soy milk and soy nuts, are great sources of lean protein.

How do I introduce meat to my 2 year old? ›

Chunks of meat are a common choking hazard for children under 4. Make sure you're serving meat safely to your little one by offering puréed or soft, gummable meat (like meatballs or logs made from ground meat) for the earliest eaters, then cutting meat into small, bite-sized pieces for bigger babies and toddlers.

Why can't my child swallow meat? ›

Dysphagia can be long-term (chronic). Or it may come on suddenly. If your child's swallowing issues start suddenly and your child is normally healthy, your child may have something stuck in the esophagus. If your child has trouble swallowing and a fever, it may be because of an infection.

How do I get my toddler to eat more protein? ›

Some ideas to encourage children who are picky eaters eat enough protein include:
  1. Involve your child in meal planning, grocery shopping and food preparation.
  2. Limit snacks one to two hours before meal times.
  3. Offer healthy foods without any other option so they learn the importance of a healthy diet.
Jul 24, 2019

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