I have a collection of great special-occasion recipes, and people are always asking me to share them. Is there a nice way to say no?
It might help your frame of mind to think of each request as a compliment. If there's a recipe you truly don't want to reveal, just say warmly, "I'm very flattered you like it. However, it's been kept in the family for so long that I've promised myself not to divulge it. I'm sure you understand." You could then offer to give her a recipe that you like but don't feel protective about.
Etiquette Expert
Peggy Post is a nationally recognized authority on etiquette, and an author and director of the Emily Post Institute. Some of Peggy's books include Emily Post's Wedding Planner for Mom; Emily's Magic Words, an illustrated book for toddlers; Teen Manners: From Malls to Meals to Messaging and Beyond; and the Spanish language edition of Excuse Me, But I Was Next... She writes a monthly column in Good Housekeeping magazine.
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